
Stay Steady: How to Respond When Everything Feels Urgent
How to stay calm under pressure: practical stress management tips for when everything feels urgent. Unique 3-step “pause–assess–choose” routine to improve emotional regulation skills and respond to urgency without panic. Learn how to pause and respond, not react, so you can make better decisions, manage overwhelm and anxiety, and stay steady under stress. What You'll Learn: • How the brain’s fight or flight response hijacks your thinking and narrows your focus when everything feels urgent. • A simple 3-step pause–assess–choose routine you can use in under 60 seconds to calm your body and clear your mind. • How to use diaphragmatic breathing to quickly interrupt panic thinking and support better decision making under stress. • Practical ways to manage overwhelm and anxiety by shifting from automatic reactions to intentional responses. • How to apply mindfulness for busy people in real-time: micro-pauses you can use in meetings, emails, and tough conversations. • A quick writing exercise to lock in key stress management tips so you remember and actually use them. • How to spot one specific area of your life where staying steady under urgency would change your results. • How to choose one tiny action this week to practice emotional regulation skills and build confidence under pressure. Episode Content: 00:00 - Introduction: Why everything feels urgent now 04:12 - What happens in your brain during the fight or flight response 09:30 - The 3-step pause–assess–choose routine explained 15:45 - Diaphragmatic breathing: how to use 10–60 seconds to reset 20:10 - Stopping panic thinking and widening your perspective 25:05 - Mindfulness for busy people: micro-pauses that fit your day 31:40 - Writing down key insights so you remember and act on them 36:20 - Finding one area to apply “stay steady” right now 40:05 - Choosing one small action to practice this week 44:30 - Recap and encouragement to build your calm-under-pressure toolkit
What You'll Learn:
- How the brain’s fight or flight response takes over when situations feel urgent and what that does to your decisions.
- A practical 3-step pause–assess–choose routine to help you pause and respond, not react, under pressure.
- How to use 10–60 seconds of diaphragmatic breathing to calm your nervous system and clear panic thinking.
- Strategies to manage overwhelm and anxiety by shifting from urgency-driven habits to intentional choices.
- Simple mindfulness for busy people: micro-practices you can use during your workday without needing extra time.
- Why writing down key stress management tips helps you remember and actually apply what you learn.
- How to identify one specific situation in your life where staying steady under urgency could change the outcome.
- How to pick one small, realistic action this week to strengthen your emotional regulation skills under stress.
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